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  As you know if you are a regular  reader of  this blog,  I am a big fan of Mediation generally.   I favor Mediation in Family Law because it gives  parties ownership and control over their destiny.   I always believe that Mothers and Fathers, Husbands and Wives know more  than a Judge about their own  lives and what is best for their  families.    In the time of COVID-19,  I am an even greater proponent of Mediation.  Mediation  now  gives you the opportunity to have a  ready forum  to resolve your dispute.  If you are waiting for a Judge to hear your case-  dig in–you may be waiting for  months or even a year.   If you decide to mediate –you may get the resolution you need before we come out of quarantine.

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I just got off one of the many Zoom calls about Family Law updates that I am on weekly, and the news I have to report is that in our courts  family law matters are NOT likely to resume soon.  While technically many Philadelphia area  courts may be re-opening on June 1st,  nothing will be business as usual.  The backlog is enormous.  All filings continue,  but  only emergencies are being heard.    The four county area of  Delaware County, Chester County, Montgomery County and Philadelphia County, each are handling their re-openings differently, but the essential message from family court Judges and administrators  is  to expect disruption and delays for a long time into the future.

So MANY QUESTIONS …  ASK YOURS AND Learn More… join our  FREE Webinar on DIVORCE, CUSTODY AND COVID-19.  Friday April 10 at noon    to register send an email to phyllis@bookspanlaw.com and you will be sent a link.

Cooperation is Key in Time of Uncertainty

It feels like the world has shut down, and we don’t know what will come next.    If you are  in the midst of  a family transition, like divorce, the situation may  feel even more uncertain.   Sheltering in place at home may not feel like shelter.    Custody exchanges that once were amicable, now may be  contentious and fraught with  fear of  transmission of a deadly virus.   Children are scared, as well as parents.   If you are receiving and/or paying support,  you may be wondering what will happen  if you are furloughed or lose a job.     So how do your concerns get answered.?     There is much information circulating and it should be read with care.  With  respect to your  questions and  your matters  the answer may be …   It depends.  Let’s discuss further…

Should I file for Divorce now?

Beth and  John live together in the same house, but for the past six months have been sleeping in separate bedrooms.  They don’t eat meals together and speak only when necessary.  She has been wanting to file for divorce but was waiting until their son graduated from high school this June.  Now their son’s school is closed, and graduation may be cancelled.   She doesn’t think she can continue another day in her situation.

Is this you?  Have you  been unhappy in  your marriage, and considering filing for divorce?   Is  now  the best time to file that Divorce Complaint?   Perhaps not. The world is changing daily and we don’t know what tomorrow may bring.    At a time of uncertainty, stability is important.    Do you know how much you  depend upon the institution of marriage for emotional support?     However,  if your  marriage is beyond saving,  if  sheltering at home is not feeling like a safe harbor,  and if the time has shown  beyond any shadow of doubt that you want out,  then perhaps now is the time to file.    The date that a complaint is filed triggers many legal things, that will affect a divorcing couple, and could be to the advantage of the filer.     For example, the filing date begins the tolling period for when a final divorce can issue,  it begins the unassailable date of separation, which is important for determining things like division of assets,  and it can begin the right to  receive spousal support.

So, what to do now  should include  a careful weighing of the situation, a  discussion between client and attorney,  and  a  prudent review  of the most recent investment and retirement fund statements.

I Filed for Divorce and Everything is “on Hold”…. What should I do?

The Courts  in almost every jurisdiction are closed for everything except Emergency Proceedings.  No matter how much your divorce may feel like an emergency to you,  it is not.

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